Pastor Steve King is currently the Senior Pastor emeritus at Cherrydale Baptist Church and serves on our board for Arlington Bridge Builders. This is his story:
My first several years as a pastor were focused primarily on Cherrydale, but out of a burden I had while serving in the ministry, I believed that evangelicals should be friends and choose to reach their community together. It led me to create what is now known as the Band of Brothers, 30 years ago. We are a group of pastors who meet on a regular basis (now virtually) to pray for one another, share a word from the word and become aware of upcoming events to get involved in. Everyone leaves having been prayed for, loved on and heard. Many outreach partnerships were formed because of these friends, one of them being Arlington Bridge Builders.
As we long for our county leaders to serve and co-labor in Christ, several churches were able to connect through ABB. Our mission statement has really focused on South Arlington, specifically groups of people with greater needs. Fulfilling the purpose of building a bridge by taking the wealthier churches in Northern Arlington who want to serve, partner and learn alongside those in the southern part of the county. To not go in with “We have the resources, we have the answers” but rather, “We have a lot to learn from you and we’d like to partner with you and serve you.” Our job should only be to serve, not to come with an agenda.
My hope is to one day see the whole community transformed. And what's so powerful about it is every time that I have spoken about the Band of Brothers, Christians and non-Christians rejoice to hear about churches partnering together. People will start to believe Jesus is real when we learn to love each other.”
-Pastor Steve King, founder of Band of Brothers
Torey is one of the volunteers that makes ABB’s work possible! Her heart for service grew during college, particularly for Latino communities. Today, she continues this service with our neighbors through the food pantry. We are blessed to know her.
"My name is Torey Driggs and I am from Arlington, VA. I’ve lived here on and off my entire life but also have spent a lot of time in Blacksburg, VA as an undergraduate and now graduate student at Virginia Tech.
A fun fact about me is that I fully learned Spanish in three years and now am actually working towards an M.A. in Hispanic Studies! I became determined to learn more about the language and associated cultures after traveling to Ecuador and coming to terms with not even being able to communicate with others on a basic level. As soon as I got the chance, which was during my second year as an undergraduate, I took a Spanish class. I immediately fell in love and sought out opportunities to immerse myself through tutoring in the Spanish language, attending conversation hours, and surrounding myself with Spanish speakers. I was also fortunate enough to study Spanish abroad in Spain twice and in Costa Rica once.
The ABB food pantry has given me the opportunity to continue to practice the language and learn. When I served through the pantry, I loved making other peoples’ days by bringing food to their porches and they reciprocally made my day not only through allowing me to practice Spanish, but also through their positive mindsets and energy despite the challenging times. I hope to be able to meet these lovely people again and continue to learn from them through great conversations!"
meet some of our neighbors!
ABB had a blast hosting a meet and greet night with our neighbors! We got to hear from the families who have been helped by ABB and learn more about their stories and experience during the pandemic. It was a special time bringing different parts of the community together, and we are looking forward to more time together! If you’re interested in dialing in, visit our website to learn more on ways to get involved with ABB!
Dr. Tariq Javed is the Ministry Director of ABB and currently runs our food pantry. In serving different communities, Dr. Tariq has a passion for empowering others through compassionate care. This is his story:
I was born and raised in Pakistan in a Christian household. Christian communities face a lot of persecution in my country, so finding access to a good education growing up was often difficult for me.
I had favor from the Lord though, and after I passed my exams, I was offered a job in Kuwait. I started attending a multi-ethnic ministry where the Lord grew my passion for Him. I was grateful for the opportunity to serve and study ministry and theology at the graduate level, which ultimately led me to move to the United States with my family to complete my doctoral studies and to serve more.
But when I was living in Kuwait and visiting my family in Pakistan during the holidays, I saw that many people struggled with poverty and oppression- they couldn’t even eat two meals a day. I was moved to preach and raise money to help the poor in my community. However, when I came here, I saw that it was nearly impossible because of travel restrictions.
Instead, one of my friends who was a pastor had interviewed me for a job at ABB. When this happened, I knew God had given me the desires of my heart! Even though I wanted to serve in Pakistan, God called me to serve people here in Arlington - especially those who come to ABB for assistance. Through this ministry, I have a way to advocate for people.
In this pandemic season, I go to the Capital Area Food Bank to load food onto my truck. I usually get around 1,000 pounds of food per week for the food pantry. People have a lot to choose from, like meat, potatoes, black beans, soup, onions, tomatoes, veggies, carrots, and other things. In fact, the food pantry is famous for its chicken, beef, and fish.
My motto is: When people come, I serve them with compassion and love. I don't want them to feel that someone is just giving them food and they have to accept it. So in a way that makes them feel valued. They have the choice to choose whatever they want for themselves, just like any grocery store would.
God enables us to serve His people. That is the marvelous opportunity, and it is an honor for me to serve Him.
Rossy has always loved Arlington, but struggled at times to take care of her daughters as a single mother, especially during COVID-19. However, she has been blessed by ABB during these uncertain times to continue to provide for her family. ABB is honored to serve her; this is her story:
I had the blessing of coming to this country on a tourist visa with my two younger children. My initial reason was to meet my husband who was already living here, at the time. Since then, I have always lived in Arlington, VA. I remember I began working in 2015 - it was the winter season, so I started off cleaning/shoveling snow. Then I went from cleaning houses to working as a waitress in a restaurant. Since then my English has gotten better.
However, when it came to my family, my marriage fell apart. My husband was an alcoholic and became abusive towards me. Just last year, I decided to take it to court, and he was asked to leave. I had to go to therapy sessions with my girls. I became depressed and suffered through a lot of pain. It was a long process, but thankfully with my girls we have been able to recover some since.
When the restaurants started closing due to COVID-19, I could no longer be a waitress, but I still had money left to pay rent. Sometimes, I was asked to clean houses and that would help some, but it wasn’t enough. My girls were scared, and worried - especially my oldest Margeory (age 10), since she has a stronger understanding of what was going on. She would ask me questions like, “How will we overcome this?”
A friend who was getting assistance through ABB reached out to me, and said that I should apply with them as well, to see if I could recieve the same...I’m thankful they were willing to invite me.
I have been receiving food items to my door at least once a week since the pandemic started. I want to give thanks for the support ABB has given me during this time - it has filled one major basic need. Being unemployed has been of much worry to me and has caused financial problems and economically constraints - not to mention debts. It helps to know that there is a support system that helps get rid of one worried thought: how will I feed my family today?"